There is an irony when the advertising and media industry says that using condom is the “responsible” thing to do and therefore what a “real man” ought to do.But is it?
If “being responsible” means putting a rubber because you cannot control your urges, that is not “being responsible”. How can you be called responsible when you cannot even take responsibility in controlling your urges? You use condom to give in to your urges, not control them.
If “being responsible” means not respecting the body of your wife, and therefore your wife herself, by manipulating her to scratch every time you itch, that is not “being responsible”. That is what you called “being a user.” You have made your wife a prostitute who lives to give you pleasure.
God created man to protect their wives. Not to use them. Real men protect their wives, especially to themselves.
Real men take responsibility for their actions. They take responsibility for their urges. Real men know self-discipline, especially with their desires. Real men are the masters of their desires and not the other way around.
Condoms promote promiscuity. Condoms promote selfishness. Condoms promote lust.
Condoms say “I don’t give a hoot!” to the natural rhythm of the woman’s body and fertility.
Condoms say “Let me have it when I want it, where I want it.”
Condoms are for unrestrained selfish boys.
Real men don’t use condom. Real men respect the natural order of things. Real men are not against conceiving life.
Real men practices natural family planning, for “real men” are natural and not artificial. He knows that God left a natural way to plan for his family.
A Real man knows how to love his wife, her body and her fertility.
And most of all real men love God above all. Even above himself.
Written by Daxx Bondoc
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